The

Process

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Find Your

Soulmate

Instead of investing emotionally and financially in disappointing dates that go nowhere, you can find your match hassle-free. We will provide you with carefully curated selection of candidates that meet your criteria. Hiring a matchmaker allows you to relax while someone else does the work. While you tend to the business of your busy life, we get to work carefully selecting, screening and interviewing your potential dates.

In essence, we date them first to see if they are a good fit for you. We will not make an introduction until we feel we have a potential partner who embodies everything you are looking for. Contact us for a paid consultation. We look forward to taking this time to learn more about you, your background, personality, lifestyle and interests. We will also discover the characteristics of the person you would like to meet.

The Interview

Step One

During our intake process, our matchmaking experts conduct client assessments and interviews to ascertain what types of partner and relationship dynamic will be most compatible for you. We learn from your personal history — your preferences, deal-breakers, what your relationship patterns are — as well as what a healthy, happy relationship looks like for you. We get to know each individual on a very personal level.

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Step 2

SELECTION

The Matchmaker puts together a comprehensive presentation of candidate information for the client. The presentation details pertinent facts about the candidate, along with recent photos, observations and valuable insights from our Matchmakers. With this knowledge, the client can make an informed decision whether to ask additional follow up questions, continue the search, or enthusiastically pursue the match.

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The Date

Step Three

This is perhaps the most exciting phase, when our clients are introduced to their match and meet in person. A date provides a venue for each individual to discover the chemistry and enjoy exploring the connection and all they have in common.

We only introduce our clients to “must-meet” individuals who we believe have the greatest compatibility.

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Step four

EVALUATION

After the date, both individuals independently consult with their Selective Search Matchmaker. The Matchmaker consults with both confidentially, as an objective third party. They encourage each party to discuss how the date went, and asks how they would like to proceed. This phase is especially helpful for both the client and the candidate. As an objective third party, the Matchmaker adds value in developing the right relationships, and providing valuable feedback in new relationships. Frequently, both parties learn a lot about themselves during this phase.

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